Assure Okay - Check-in App for People Living Alone
Safety Solutions for Single Parents Living Alone
Because your children depend on you completely, having a safety net isn't optional—it's essential.
The Weight of Being the Only Parent at Home
As a single parent living alone with your children, you carry an enormous responsibility. You're the breadwinner, the caretaker, the cook, the nurse, and the protector—all at once. But what happens if something happens to you? Who calls for help? Who ensures your children are safe?
This isn't a morbid thought—it's a practical concern that millions of single parents face daily. Whether you're a single mom, a single dad, a divorced parent with primary custody, or a widowed parent, having an emergency plan is one of the most loving things you can do for your children.
A Tragedy That Could Have Been Prevented
In 2024, a heartbreaking incident in Skegness, UK shook families everywhere. Two-year-old Bronson Battersby was found dead alongside his father, who had passed away from a heart attack. The tragedy wasn't discovered until several days later, despite attempts by social services to make contact.
This story illustrates the devastating reality: when a single parent becomes incapacitated, young children are helpless. A simple daily check-in system could have alerted someone within hours—not days.
Single Parent Households
Over 10 million single-parent households exist in the US alone, with similar proportions across the UK, Australia, and other countries. Many of these parents live with their children and no other adult in the home. If the parent becomes incapacitated, children—especially young ones—may not know what to do.
Free Forever for Single Parents with Young Children
We believe every single parent with a small child deserves peace of mind, regardless of their financial situation. If you're a single parent living alone with a young child, we'll provide AssureOkay completely free—forever.
No catches. No time limits. No questions asked. Just send us an email.
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No Other Adult at Home
In two-parent households, if one parent has a medical emergency, the other can call for help. As a single parent, you don't have that backup. Your children may be too young or too frightened to help.
Children Depend Entirely on You
Unlike living alone as an individual, your incapacitation doesn't just affect you—it immediately impacts vulnerable children who need care, food, supervision, and emotional support.
Extended Family May Be Far Away
Many single parents live in different cities or countries from their extended family. Grandparents, siblings, or close friends might be hours away, making immediate notification crucial.
Exhaustion Is Real
Single parents often work harder and sleep less than others. This exhaustion can increase the risk of accidents at home—falls, fainting from illness, or other emergencies.
Common Scenarios That Keep Single Parents Up at Night
"What if I fall and can't get up?"
Falls happen at any age—a slippery bathroom floor, missing a step on the stairs. If you're knocked unconscious or badly injured, your children might be too young to call for help, or too scared to know what to do. With AssureOkay, your emergency contacts are notified within hours if you miss your check-in.
"What if I have a medical emergency during the night?"
Heart attacks, strokes, severe allergic reactions, diabetic emergencies—they don't wait for convenient times. If you're incapacitated at 2 AM, your morning check-in reminder becomes a lifeline that ensures help is on the way.
"What if I'm alone when my children are at school?"
Many single parents work from home or have time alone while kids are at school. An accident during these hours could mean your children come home to find you injured—or worse, you're not there to pick them up. AssureOkay ensures someone knows immediately if something goes wrong.
Questions Single Parents Ask
How quickly will someone be notified if I miss a check-in?
AssureOkay gives you a customizable window to respond to check-in reminders. If you miss your check-in:
- First, you'll receive additional reminders via app, SMS, or AI phone call
- If you still don't respond, your emergency contacts are immediately notified
- Contacts receive your location information, access instructions, and important details about your children
- Multiple contacts are notified simultaneously, ensuring someone responds
The entire process is designed to balance avoiding false alarms with ensuring rapid response when something is actually wrong.
What information should I include about my children?
Your emergency contacts should know:
- Children's names, ages, and any medical conditions or allergies
- School or daycare information and pickup procedures
- The children's other parent's contact information (if applicable)
- Any custody arrangements or restrictions
- Medication schedules and locations
- Comfort items or routines that help during stress
You can store all this in AssureOkay's notes section, which is shared with your emergency contacts during an alert.
Who should I list as emergency contacts?
Choose people who are:
- Nearby: Someone who can reach your children quickly (within 30-60 minutes)
- Trusted with your children: Family members, close friends, or trusted neighbors
- Available: People who check their phone regularly and can respond any time of day
- Informed: People who know your children and your household routine
Many single parents list the children's other parent (if appropriate), grandparents, siblings, close friends, or trusted neighbors. Having 2-3 contacts ensures someone is always available.
Can my older children be taught to check on me?
While older children (teenagers) can certainly be part of your safety plan, they shouldn't bear the full responsibility. Consider:
- Teenagers may be away at friends' houses, activities, or school events
- It can be emotionally traumatic for a child to find their parent injured
- Children may panic and not know how to respond appropriately
- Having an adult backup removes this burden from your children
AssureOkay provides an adult safety net that protects both you and your children from bearing this responsibility alone.
Features Perfect for Single Parents
Multiple Notification Methods
Get check-in reminders via app, SMS, or even AI phone calls—perfect for busy parents who might miss one notification.
Flexible Check-In Times
Set check-in times that work with your parenting schedule. Mornings after school drop-off, evenings after bedtime—you choose.
Pause for Weekends Away
When your children are with their other parent or you're traveling together, easily pause check-ins and resume when you're back to solo parenting.
Digital Will for Important Information
Store custody documents, guardianship wishes, financial information, and other crucial details that your emergency contacts would need access to.
Pet Profiles Too
Many families have pets. Store pet care information alongside your children's details to ensure all family members are cared for.
Creating Your Single Parent Safety Plan
Set Up Daily Check-Ins
Choose a time that works for your schedule—morning after the kids leave, or evening once they're in bed. It takes 2 seconds.
Add Emergency Contacts
Choose 2-5 trusted adults who can respond if needed. Include nearby neighbors, family, and close friends.
Add Your Children's Information
Include schools, medical needs, routines, and the other parent's contact info if applicable.
Share Access Information
Tell contacts where spare keys are or share door codes so they can quickly access your home.
Consider a Digital Will
Store important documents, guardianship wishes, and other information your family would need in an emergency.
Protect Your Children by Protecting Yourself
As a single parent, taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's the most important thing you can do for your children.
Remember: Single parents with young children can get AssureOkay free forever. Just send us an email.